{ LOVE / Hate }

As I've gotten older, I've come to realize that people still carry this idea that loving someone can be too deep, and hating someone can be too easy. I've personally never been afraid; or ashamed of loving someone. Its something to embrace and be proud of. If it fails, then it fails. Learn from it, become a stronger person because of it. There will always be failures in your life, if it was not for failure there would not be success. I've learned that people will respect you more for giving something your all and not being afraid rather than pretending you're something you're not and avoiding true feeling. I'm not sure why so many people are scared of love, yet welcome hate. Maybe because it's easier? Since when did easier get anyone anywhere? There are so many people who avoid relationships or committing to one person, part being their fear of rejection ... part being their fear of judgement. It's better to look back and say you tried; rather than look back and say you wish you would of ...

Then there's hate. Such a strong, eliminating word. Act. That I don't entirely understand either. You don't have to say you hate someone, to hate on them. And it seems as if, everyone is hating on everyone. If someone doesn't like someone else, or doesn't agree with someones ideas ...  it's okay for you to form your own opinion and not follow theirs. People follow other peoples opinions without making their own far too often. People go off word of mouth entirely too much these days. In all honesty, word of mouth is not entirely credible ... people should know that by now.

xo MO